There’s a song that says, “The longer the waiting, the sweeter the kiss.” I hope that it holds true for publishing as well.
I received another rejection yesterday. This time it really hurt, as the rejection came from someone who had requested my full manuscript. I knew I shouldn’t get my hopes up and I did my best not to, but it still stung. I understand that they can’t take on every project – it’s a small press, and it’s not the easiest of times out there. You really have to love a project to take it on.
There was a bright spot in the midst of the gloom, though. They encouraged me to keep trying, keep pushing for others to publish my work or even self-publish it, and that encouragement really meant a lot to me. I’ve been receiving lots of other query rejections, so that tiny little bit of encouragement was very gratefully received. I am sorry, though, that I won’t get the chance to work with that publisher. I love the books they put out.
And then tonight, my friend Tricia posted a video on her blog that she’d seen on Facebook. You can check out her post entitled “Never Give Up,” here. Watch the video. I promise you won’t be sorry. And that message, never give up, was exactly the message I needed to hear tonight. It really is amazing what you can do if you put your mind to it.
So that’s what I’m going to do. I’m going to put my mind to it. I’m going to send out another batch of queries, I’m going to get my Pitch Wars emails sent off tomorrow, and I’m going to keep working on my sequel. I will be published someday. I will beat the odds.
I can do anything I set my mind to. And so can you.
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I’m proud of you. Keep trying. I know you can do it.
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Thanks, Tricia, I will. Right after I finish off this pile of truffles. 😉
Chocolate fixes everything, right? 😀
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Seriously…if Stephanie Meyer can get her mediocre writing published, your jewels will surely shine far brighter!
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Aw, thanks, Fi! Of course, without you and Journey to Atlantis, I wouldn’t have a book to query in the first place. So really, thank you. 🙂
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I’m really sorry about that rejection. There’s no other word for it– it sucks.
But definitely keep trying. To quote the immortal Win a Date with Tad Hamilton, your odds go up when you file an application. 🙂
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Thanks. It sucks muy mucho.
Oh, Tad Hamilton. I haven’t watched that movie in forever! Perhaps a nice chick flick-fest is called for this weekend. Or better yet, another rewatch of The Princess Bride. Yes, that will do nicely. 🙂
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I agree. We should never give up. Sorry you got another rejection, but getting an acceptance is really tough to do these days. Good luck with all of it.
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Oh, I know it’s tough out there. I expect rejection. And if someone I’ve queried feels they are unable to help me in my quest to become a published author, I would much rather have them tell me up front by rejecting my query than have them accept it and spend a lot of time on my project before they tell me they feel that it’s not a good fit for them. That’s a waste of everyone’s time and resources. But it still hurts.
I watch a lot of Shark Tank and it’s been a good show for me to watch, I think. I’ve learned a lot about pitching ideas to investors, which is basically what a query is. And I’ve learned that if an investor you’re pitching is interested but doesn’t have the tools to help you, all the interest in the world sometimes won’t convince them to take on your project. But I’m determined and stubborn and I’m going to keep learning and keep trying and one day, I’ll get there.
The longer the waiting, the sweeter the kiss. It’s better my darlin’, I promise you this. -Josh Turner, “The Longer the Waiting (The Sweeter the Kiss)”
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You won’t remember the rejections when you finally sign your contract. Have at them.
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Methinks it’s time to kill someone off in the sequel. A hundred and some pages in and no one’s died yet. That needs fixing. 😉
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One hundred pages and no slaughter. For shame. Get killing. I’ve been worried that in writing Kongomato 2 it’s been almost thirty pages since someone died dreadfully.
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I know, I know, I need to be more heartless when it comes to torturing my characters. And they’re just begging for it. And migraines make me cranky and I’ve had one for the last three days, so I’m in perfect shape to get my torture on.
Now, where did I put that ostrich feather?
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Try dripping water on the forehead, it’s so much more satisfying when they begin to scream,.
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That could go well with something like “The Macarena” set to repeat. Yes, that would do quite nicely, I think. 😀
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Or even Ravel’s bolero. But no, that’s just too cruel.
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Music from any one of Hitchcock’s movies might do the trick…
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Or anything thing my daughter listens to. Five minutes of that and I’d be happy to jump under a bus.
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Indeed. What passes for music these days is hardly worthy of the name in most cases.
*runs off to listen to a borrowed copy of Chicken Boxer*
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Don’t know that one but my spawn’s songs all seem to revolve around “slapping up my bitch” and shooting policemen. And to think my mom thought Black Sabbath and Led Zeppelin were bad when I was younger.
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It’s Gaelic Storm’s latest album. For a rousing jig, they’re tough to beat. We listen to a lot of country music, so there’s less about “slapping up my bitch” and more about “there’s a tear in my beer.” It’s no Led Zeppelin, but it’s got all that other garbage beat with a stick.
I have pretty eclectic taste when it comes to music. I like almost everything. Almost.
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The worst thing about my daughter’s music is that I’m beginning to learn the words.
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Now that’s scary.
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On the plus side, I don’t really understand them.
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Well that’s a relief. You had me worried there for a moment. 🙂
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My daughter kindly offered to explain and only the return offer of lots of pain made her cease and desist.
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