Another rant of sorts

I’ve been following the case of Andy Dougherty (sort of) in the Des Moines Register of late and I have to say, I am very intrigued by it.  I’ve really enjoyed reading the comments after today’s op-ed piece; they are a great illustration of how some people can completely lose sight of objective reasoning and get swept up in the mob mentality.  Mob justice never accomplished anything worthwhile.  On the other hand, there are several comments that show how objective some people can truly be.  With such a sensitive topic, it takes a lot of courage to stick up for people accused of such crimes and I commend anyone who does.  Not everyone accused of a sex crime is a monster.

It seems to me like I had a lot more to say on that earlier, shortly after I read the article in this morning’s paper, but now, not so much.  Guess that just goes to show how an initial reading can inflame the passions and how time can temper things.  On the other hand, I read an article a little while ago about extending Medicaid to those between the ages of 19 and 65 who have no children and meet income guidelines.  The lone comment concerns the tax money that would be used to pay for such an expansion of benefits and while I agree that the author has a point, I still don’t think that it would be a terrible idea.  If you don’t have health insurance, you’re pretty well screwed if you have any sort of health problem.  Yes, taxpayers would be footing the bill, but at least in Iowa, if you’ve ever been on any sort of state aid, the state will come back and collect from your estate.  Coffer replenishment partly solved (not everyone’s estates have enough money to repay the state).  I have a problem with people that abuse the welfare system, but not everyone on welfare is playing the system.  Sometimes even when you work full-time, you just can’t afford things and you need help.  I speak from experience.  It was personally embarrassing for me to be on welfare, but at the time, I needed the help and I was not too proud to take it when it came to my family’s well-being.

I work full-time but am unable to afford health insurance; the premiums for decent coverage are just prohibitively expensive.  It’s a problem for me as some of the medication I take is also prohibitively expensive.  And yet, the expanded Medicaid program would be of no use to me because I have a child.  I would still advocate for it, though, because for some people, it would really be a Godsend.  If you’ve ever had to choose between groceries and a trip to the doctor for your sick child, you know what I mean.

Okay, I’ll get off my high horse now.  In other news, it’s a beautiful day outside again and I wish I didn’t have to be cooped up inside.  Maybe we can take the kids to the park tonight or something and just enjoy being outside.  Or maybe we could curl up in the hammock while the kids play in the yard…

*sigh* Can I go home yet?

Eight days till September 3…

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Keep it light, keep it bright, keep it gay!

I know, I know, my poetry sucks, but I was feeling a bit on the creative side today.  And the weather is just so beautiful that I felt compelled to write something about it.  As I was sitting on a bench this noon, I just couldn’t resist writing about the gentle late-summer breeze wafting through the courthouse square, winding in and out of the trees like a dancer twirling a ribbon.  Lovely daydreams consumed my thoughts and consume them still; I really don’t want to be at work right now.  Oh, to be at home, napping in the hammock beneath the trees, preferably with company. 🙂  Such fun!

I am so excited!  My baby’s coming home tonight!  YAY!!!  I haven’t seen him in a whole week and I’ve never gone that long without seeing him before.  I can’t wait!  I missed him so much!

*yawn*  I suppose I had better get something done, but I really don’t want to…

*sigh*  Can it please be five o’clock instead of only quarter after one?

Nine days till September 3…

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Pink nail polish and other sundry items of interest

There was an article in the Des Moines Register this morning dealing with a man in Pennsylvania who wants to open a halfway house for sex offenders.  I thought it was a very interesting article and I think it is very nice of him to do such a thing.  His request was denied and so he invited three convicted sex offenders who had served prison time into his home, where they help out around the house, contribute to the bills, and actively search for employment and housing elsewhere.  His neighbors are furious, but I find his actions refreshing.  Residency restriction laws are absolute crap.

I can hear the nay-sayers now: Would you really want your child living next door to a sex offender?  What if something happened?  Who’s to say they are truly rehabilitated?  I see a huge problem with this sort of logic, though.  The law in Iowa states that all registered sex offenders must live at least 2,000 feet away from any school or registered daycare.  That eliminates all of Gladbrook and I’m pretty sure it eliminates all of Reinbeck.  It also eliminates a lot of Marshalltown, as there are schools and daycares all over the place there, and I’m sure the same holds true for other metropolitan areas.  With such stringent restrictions on where people are able to live, it creates headaches not only for the sex offenders trying to find a place to live, but also for the police officers whose job it is to keep track of them.  Man hours are wasted trying to make sure that registered addresses are not bogus.  These people have friends, too, and friends will lie to cover for their buddies when in danger like this.

I am of the opinion that the truly dangerous offenders are locked up in prisons with no chance of getting out.  The repeat offenders usually repeat prison sentences, just like other criminals.  And jail is a difficult place to be a sex offender, especially if your offense involved children.  Better not bend over to reach for that soap.  And as far as something happening to my child, the odds of a sex offender living next door to me and doing something to my child are slim.  Most offenses take place with someone the victim already knows and who is already allowed access to the child, so just because you enact a law that says sex offenders can’t live within so many feet of a place doesn’t mean that there’s going to be a reduction in sex crimes.  Just because you can’t live within 2,000 feet of a school doesn’t mean you can’t go within 2,000 feet of a school.  If they want it bad enough, they’ll find a way, and no law will stop them.

It seems the fury over this in Iowa hit fever pitch about the time that Jetseta Gage was killed.  What bothered me about that case so much was that her own mother was allowing the Bentley brothers access to her daughter; they were invited into her home and she trusted them around her children.  Look how that trust was repaid.  I personally think she is a stupid, careless woman for letting people around her child without knowing more about their backgrounds first.

If anyone actually reads this, I anticipate a lot of angry comments, but really, it’s about time that someone stood up and voiced this kind of opinion.  The way most people talk, sex offenders are the scourge of the galaxy.  Don’t get me wrong, I’m not condoning their actions; I find them as reprehensible as the next person.  But people are capable of change.  And laws can be a problem; how many men out there have been convicted of having consensual sex with their underage girlfriends?  And by men I mean like a 19-year-old boy and his 15-year-old girlfriend.  If convicted, he will have to register as a sex offender for his entire life, just because he took a roll in the hay with a girl who was willing but under the age of consent (16 in Iowa).  Now you tell me: Is he really such an evil person?  Not many people often stop to think about it that way.

I understand that the scenario posed above is not the case with all sex offenders, but it happens more than people think and I think people ought to use their brains a bit before condemning others.  Judge not, lest ye be judged.  The article I linked to above had a very good quote in it from Jeremiah that I think is very fitting to this discussion: “For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sin no more.”  It was a wise person who said that.

And now, on to less inflammatory matters.  Apparently the future of Delta Industries  and that of its employees is looking a little clearer.  The plan is to rebuild, but they’re not sure where yet.  I really hope they will seriously consider staying in Reinbeck as a lot of employees live in town.  I believe it would be a major blow to our local economy for Delta to pick up and leave.  As there is no word yet on what caused the fire, I am still curious.  I’ve heard arson mentioned, but I don’t know if I’m ready to believe that.  I suppose I’m a bit naive, but I prefer to believe the best of people and look for the good in them, so it’s really hard for me to recognize the bad in people, especially people that I know.  Hopefully they’ll be able to conclude the investigation soon and provide answers for the community.

And now, something completely different!

My grandpa’s wife underwent two surgeries this week to correct a heart problem.  I am happy to say that she came through both operations quite well, but she remains in ICU and will probably be there for four or five more days before probably making a trip to an assisted living facility to continue her recovery.  I’m very hopeful that the two surgeries she had will correct all the problems she’s been having and that she’ll be up and around again and back to her normal self in no time.  I’m sure my grandpa is hoping the same thing.

I’ve been doing quite a lot of writing and typing today and boy, are my hands tired!  So on that note, I think I will bid you all (okay, all one of you) a fond farewell and a happy Friday!

Nineteen days till September 3…

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Sweet, sweet sleep…

…how I long for thee!  And peace and quiet, too!

My week sure filled up in a hurry.  In one afternoon, I have filled up two days and an evening, all within the next week!  One of those days will involve vacation time and pampering, right before a very long drive and a very early morning (more vacation time).  I had rather forgotten how crazy the week before a wedding can be!  Not mine, mind you, a friend’s.  I’m a bridesmaid.  A bridesmaid without shoes…I might want to fix that problem before Saturday.  Now if only I knew what else I would wear silver shoes with…

*sigh*  I love kids, but sometimes they’ll drive you nuts!  After today, I’m amazed I haven’t sprouted a bald patch.

And now, without further ado, I present the gentle gurgling of the desktop fountain and the somewhat more urgent gurgling of the fish tank…Swim, fishies, swim!  Swim for your lives!  The fountain will save you!

As you can see, I have entered the Silly Zone, that part of you which overcomes all normal functioning when you are so tired that you can hardly see straight, let alone stand straight or do much of anything else straight…Such as making any kind of sense whatsoever…

I think I need a nap.

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